When Expectations Don’t Match Reality: How to Handle Life’s Challenges.

We’ve all been there—when what we expect doesn’t align with what we experience. In those moments, it can feel as though everything is falling apart just when we thought things were finally coming together. So, what do we do when we’re on the brink of receiving our breakthrough, only to be met with disappointment?

I recently spoke with a friend who had gone through a similar experience. She attended a job interview, was accepted for the role, and was eager to start. However, when she arrived at the job on Monday, the employer changed the terms of the agreement and asked for something entirely different from what was initially promised. As a result, she had to reject the role, leaving her feeling frustrated and confused.

This scenario is one many of us can relate to. When we’re on the verge of receiving our testimony or breakthrough, the enemy often tries to disrupt it, sowing seeds of doubt and discouragement. The enemy’s goal is to make us feel inadequate, to erode our confidence in God’s plan for us, even in the face of opposition.

Life’s challenges don’t come with a timetable, so it’s impossible to know when they’ll strike or how to prepare for them. Sometimes, encouragement can feel like an empty cliché. When we’re left to face the harsh realities of life, it’s easy to slip into sadness or even depression.

Psalm 23:5 (KJV) reminds us of God’s provision in the midst of our struggles:

"Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over."

When I reflect on this verse, I’m struck by the four profound promises of what the Lord intends to do for us. As children of God, it’s easy to fall into the mindset that we shouldn’t have to struggle or face difficulties, assuming we’ll receive everything we want effortlessly. But we must remember that even David, who was known as a man after God’s own heart, faced immense challenges. He experienced moments of loss, doubt, and fear, but he was always encouraged and strengthened by God’s promises.

God has prepared a table for us, even in the presence of our enemies. This doesn’t just mean physical sustenance; it signifies spiritual provision, protection, and empowerment, even when things seem uncertain. God doesn’t invest His time in us for us to fail or remain stagnant. His desire is for us to thrive, even in the face of challenges. These obstacles are not meant to break us but to refine us, and He has already made provision for us to navigate through them.

When we face trials, it’s important to take time to recharge and refocus. Lean into God’s promises and remind yourself that He has equipped you with everything you need to overcome. Step into each day with the assurance that He is with you, and that His grace and strength will carry you through every challenge.

Stay revived!