When Expectations Don’t Match Reality: How to Handle Life’s Challenges.

We’ve all been there—when what we expect doesn’t align with what we experience. In those moments, it can feel as though everything is falling apart just when we thought things were finally coming together. So, what do we do when we’re on the brink of receiving our breakthrough, only to be met with disappointment?

I recently spoke with a friend who had gone through a similar experience. She attended a job interview, was accepted for the role, and was eager to start. However, when she arrived at the job on Monday, the employer changed the terms of the agreement and asked for something entirely different from what was initially promised. As a result, she had to reject the role, leaving her feeling frustrated and confused.

This scenario is one many of us can relate to. When we’re on the verge of receiving our testimony or breakthrough, the enemy often tries to disrupt it, sowing seeds of doubt and discouragement. The enemy’s goal is to make us feel inadequate, to erode our confidence in God’s plan for us, even in the face of opposition.

Life’s challenges don’t come with a timetable, so it’s impossible to know when they’ll strike or how to prepare for them. Sometimes, encouragement can feel like an empty cliché. When we’re left to face the harsh realities of life, it’s easy to slip into sadness or even depression.

Psalm 23:5 (KJV) reminds us of God’s provision in the midst of our struggles:

"Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over."

When I reflect on this verse, I’m struck by the four profound promises of what the Lord intends to do for us. As children of God, it’s easy to fall into the mindset that we shouldn’t have to struggle or face difficulties, assuming we’ll receive everything we want effortlessly. But we must remember that even David, who was known as a man after God’s own heart, faced immense challenges. He experienced moments of loss, doubt, and fear, but he was always encouraged and strengthened by God’s promises.

God has prepared a table for us, even in the presence of our enemies. This doesn’t just mean physical sustenance; it signifies spiritual provision, protection, and empowerment, even when things seem uncertain. God doesn’t invest His time in us for us to fail or remain stagnant. His desire is for us to thrive, even in the face of challenges. These obstacles are not meant to break us but to refine us, and He has already made provision for us to navigate through them.

When we face trials, it’s important to take time to recharge and refocus. Lean into God’s promises and remind yourself that He has equipped you with everything you need to overcome. Step into each day with the assurance that He is with you, and that His grace and strength will carry you through every challenge.

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The Thinning Out: God's Strategy For A Victorious Life

During a prayer meeting, my sister prayed, "Lord, make me a sword for You to tear down the enemy's strategies." As I studied Judges and Gideon's story, I pondered the meaning of being a sword for the Lord.

At first, it sounded like an ideal request to the Lord, but the reality of these words is reflected in the Gideon story. I came across the lines he told the warriors to proclaim when they went to battle "A sword for the Lord and for Gideon". For the very first time I pondered, what does it mean to be a sword for the Lord? 

Before the Lord asked Gideon to make this profound and life-changing declaration He did "the thinning process". The Lord had already given his word to Gideon that he would give him victory but then after Gideon gathered men for war God also said to him in...

Judges 6:2 (NIV)  

The Lord said to Gideon, “You have too many men. I cannot deliver Midian into their hands, or Israel would boast against me, ‘My own strength has saved me.’

The Lord thinned out his army from 32,000 to 300 men (Judges 6:2-3, 7:7). This reduction seemed ridiculous, but the battle wasn't about Gideon's strength; it was the Lord's.

In the moments before the battle and victory, Gideon was lost in an emotion of doubt, fear, and discouragement. 

Yes! The Lord wanted this moment so he wouldn't trust in his own strength, skill, or expertise but also the Lord wanted him to trust in His words. 

Similarly, in our lives, the Lord takes us through challenges, stripping away relationships, habits, and weights that hinder our trust in Him. 

This battle represents most seasons in my life and it can also be in your life too. After the Lord has given us a promise, and we go on to experience a wave of ups and downs, in that very moment the Lord is thinning us, not just physically of relationships and places that aren't needed for a victorious life but He is ridding us off the weights that would threaten His swordsman in battle. 

The thinning process can be difficult most times, painful some other times, and a basket full of uncertainty. This is because there are times he thins out of the precious relationships, jobs and careers that we pride ourselves in, the businesses, and several other weights. At this moment, he is saying  "I want you to trust me more".

God didn't forget you, God is thinning you for victory. However, God's strategy is not to abandon us but to prepare us for victory. As Revelation 12:14 (NIV) says, The woman was given the two wings of a great eagle, so that she might fly to the place prepared for her in the wilderness, where she would be taken care of for a time, times and half a time, out of the serpent's reach.

God's word reminds us that He has already given us victory. Our enemies know it, and we must trust in His words, not our own strength.

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By Guest writer.

Encountering Jesus: A Fixed Gaze on the Saviour.

Have you ever imagined what the face of Jesus would look like? 

Do you sometimes think, "I want to see my Savior's face"?

The Bible so detailed painted Zachaeus' repentance when he first encountered the Savior. He never used the phrase " I will" but he rather used "I have". He might have heard of the miracles of Jesus and then he desired to see him. He came prepared and had already done away with the things the master didn't like. (Luke 19:8-9)

He took the posture of  someone who wanted a change, and he desired a relationship with God. Through this story, God is saying to us whenever we desire a change we do not come with the "I will" mindset but we should come having done away with the weights that would pull us back. 

Whenever he would hear the wonders which Jesus did I can imagine him amazed and restlessly imagining the moment he would encounter Him. A man who had filled the empty voids of thousands and he too wanted to behold  the face of this famous man. He was ready to go up the mountains and down below any hill just to see him. In his mind he would just be saying "I just want to see him, just to see him".

To this moments we could see the reality of Gods word which admonishes us to "looking up to Jesus the author and the finisher of our faith" 

When we look at Jesus, we do not just see body parts but we would no longer be ashamed. And so whatever reproach being a tax collector came with he sees Jesus and is transformed and renewed by him 

And when Jesus came to the tree he looked up and called out to him to come down 

Luke 19:5 (AMP) And when Jesus reached the place, He looked up and said to him, Zacchaeus, hurry and come down; for I must stay at your house today.

 Zacchaeus had to desperately seek Jesus out and the Lord made a stop at his home. 

So many times, we think we have seen Jesus, but we just look at him, Jesus desires that we see him. It gets so difficult to fix our focus on Jesus when life storms keep smashing on our boats. In these moments, in our low and high moments Christ wants us to see him, to cast our gaze at him. 

When we look deeply, we see him and in those moments his lights glow through us. 

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A Fixed Gaze on the Savior: Light that changes

 

As a child, the sting of shame is not felt but as we move into the moments where we can discern the voices of people we become vulnerable to this feeling. Shame and inadequacy can creep in as we navigate life's challenges. I recently felt this while searching for a solution to a problem, feeling lost without a plan. 

As I walked around the busy streets of the city I reside in, in search of a suitable firm to fix my application I became so aware of the reality of waking up without a fixed plan for my day, and in that moment I felt inadequately ashamed. 

I can recall listening to a random conversation with an acquaintance who couldn't show up in her family home because she was not yet married another spoke of not having kids and another conversation trailed on to life issues that made us feel ashamed and inadequate. 

Have you been stuck in this moment lately? 

Are there moments in your life that you call and still feel the stinging shame of the times? 

But God knew these moments would come in our life and so he gave us a way out. I have learned to pray during this time, I ask Jesus to reveal Himself to me. Seeing His face shifts my focus from shame to His goodness. When the psalmist wrote this scripture, he had known what it meant to be stuck and he encountered the light of God that brought to the place of a victor. 

Psalm 34:5 (NIV)

Those who look to him are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame.

Would you say this prayer with me: 

"And so Lord I thank you because this doesn't end or break me, 

Thank you for this moment where I am radiated by your light and your goodness, 

I ask above all else that you would fill me with peace and in that package joy should be the wrap so I would know no sadness. 

May this season be to your glory and may your light continue to shine in my heart." 

Thank you, Jesus, Amen. 

Beloved, may Jesus shine forth his light in your heart as you look and see him.

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Guest Writer.